Don’t be that idiot. Please don’t be that idiot that takes your frustration out on that one person that is always there for you. Don’t be that idiot that pushes away the one person that would walk hells and heavens to protect you. Please, I beg you, please don’t be that idiot that pushes me so far away that by the time you realize it, I’ve had enough.

Advice # 1 (via h0pefulkid-withaninkedupheart)

excuzed:

“You,” he said, “are a terribly real thing in a terribly false world, and that, I believe, is why you are in so much pain.”

excuzed:

“You,” he said, “are a terribly real thing in a terribly false world, and that, I believe, is why you are in so much pain.”

1) You are allowed to take up space. You are a human.

2) You are allowed to have a voice.

3) You are allowed to leave whenever you feel unsafe or uncomfortable.

4) You deserve more than someone who doesn’t know how to respect you.

5) You are allowed to put your own needs first.

6) You are allowed to love yourself.

6:11 p.m. (Six reminders for bad times)

if you had a friend who spoke to you in the same way you sometimes speak to yourself, how long would you allow that person to be your friend?

one of the most eye opening things i’ve read in a while (via agirlnamedally)